Really, are you f-ing serious?

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No induction….no nothing. Apparently, no change now equals no induction, even though they were willing to do it Wednesday.

I’m furious, frustrated, upset, sad, etc. Why did they offer it in the first place?

At this point, I want to look for a new doctor….seriously!

They said I wasn’t favorable and wanted to know if I still wanted to come in. I said “yes.” They said, come back on Tuesday for your appointment.

I cried. They didn’t care.

So, don’t expect to hear from me for a while. I can’t really talk!!

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32 Comments

  1. Oh no, honey, that is horrible! I definitely say time to find a new doctor…this office sounds so insensitive!
    I hope that baby pops out SUPER soon for you!

  2. Ohhhhh NO!! What is their indecisive deal? It is time to follow up on what they offer!

  3. Oh dear my friend, I am so sorry. What the H*ll is their problem?! I don’t blame you one bit for being upset. Maybe baby will decide to come on his/her own. Prayers for you either way…

  4. Oh babe..I am so sorry.
    Enjoy (as much as you can ) your last weekend as 3 and hopefully he/she comes REALLY soon! (just not on the 14th! lol)
    Again, I’m so sorry they did that to you.
    I would have cried too 🙁

  5. What a bunch of #$%@! Im so sorry…if you feel like you need to get a different doctor, do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Bunch of sorry losers…

  6. Oh honey, I am so sorry. You just can’t mess with a pregnant woman like that. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Hang in there…

  7. Oh darlin. It’ll be fine. Look I had to carry Calob around for 42 weeks. Yes you heard me 42 weeks. I was 2 weeks past my due date ready to be induced on Monday the 25 th of March. I finally went into labor on Sunday the 24th and ended up having him on that Monday the 25th. Some things just work out that way. it’ll be fine. And the bundle of joy will be here before you know it.

    Just calm down and enjoy being pregnant and enjoy spending lots of one on one time with Izzy before the baby gets here and you have double trouble.

  8. Aww sweetie, I’m so sorry.
    I’m crying right here with you.
    I feel your pain.
    Try to hang in there and know that the end result is going to be amazing.
    I cannot WAIT to hear if it’s a boy or girl!!!
    Want me to come out there and kick some doctor ass????

  9. What is their problem?!? I would seriously punch a bitch.

    If you want I’ll come steal […I mean babysit] your other kid for the weekend so you can go beat up some doct-ahs!

  10. oh friend i am sooo sorry.

    seriously sucks.

    maybe the baby will go ahead and show them – here’s hoping your water breaks tonight!!

  11. I know you are so, so ready to have this baby and I agree that they shouldn’t mess with you.

    But, (now you’re thinking uh-oh, but please read on), what if this is your last pregnancy? Your last days ever to feel life inside of you? I’m sure you’ll miss it once it’s gone and you might even be happy that you got a few days extra with your big belly.

    Of course, you never have to admit that to the hospital staff 🙂

    Love and hugs and a
    “Go baby, Go baby, Go!”
    Tania

  12. So so so sorry Krystyn!

    I too hope that you go into labor pronto and then what the doctor can’t decide doesn’t matter!

    Praying for the water to break ASAP!

  13. i’m praying for you girl.
    go out to eat mexican food. beans may do the trick 🙂
    keep us updated

  14. You poor thing! What a tease! That little cutie will be here in now time though and will be more than worth the wait. 🙂

  15. Hang in there girl!! You know when I was ready to get those babies out, I went in for a massage and told the therapist. I went into labor that night every time! Bonus was that I was relaxed too.

  16. Oh no! Whats their problem!?! Maybe the baby will hear your cries and decide to come out his/herself! So sorry you have to keep waiting! Hopefully they’ll come to their senses!

  17. I had the same issues when I was having my daughter. I can totally relate! I love my Dr and here is what she did, don’t know if your dr would be willing to do this or if it is a widely practiced thing, but it is worth a shot to ask. and please stop reading if you are squirmish. they put a catheter (sp?) bulb in my cervix and filled it with fliud (picutre a rubbery tube with a bulb on the end and let this sit in there overnight (it wasn’t all that uncomfortable – I mean at 9 mos. how much more uncomfortable can it get!?) and the next day when I went it, I was 4cm! I went from ZERO to 4 overnight. Then they could induce. Just an idea. Hang in there! This baby will be here before you know it!

  18. Oh girly.. 🙁
    I haven’t been blog reading all week.. so forgive me for not seeing how you’ve been doing…

    I’m so sorry..That baby is going to come!! and when she/he does.. you’ll forget about this heartache..

    Keep your chin up..!! I know I’ll see baby pictures SOON!!

  19. Awww, sorry to hear that! As you know, these last days are the hardest, especially when you find out you have to wait longer. Hang in there, though–it all happens for a reason! 🙂

  20. anglophilefootballfanatic.com says:

    Oh, crap. Have you tried to do all the old wives tales? Sex, feet massage, excessive walking?

  21. I am sorry dear Krystyn.

    I know that the waiting is hard enought without this roller coaster they have put you on….Erin is on that up and down roller coaster with you…she heard that the birth mother still wants her to have the baby last MOn….but then she didn’t return to Utah even though the social worker flew to Ohio to bring her back to Utah…so one min Erin is up and hopeful and the next min. down and sad…

    at least you know that you will soon have this sweet baby in your arms…instead of your tummy. My prayers are with you. I’m sorry that the inductions didn’t work out for you. The only solice I can give is the one time that I was induced was a really hard labor for me…I think my body didn’t like being rushed.

    Hang in there gal….just a few more days. I send love and prayers your way.

  22. So sorry to hear this.
    I will say that my doctors are not proponents of inducing until you are at least one week late. I could probably handle that except that with Mia they changed my due date early on based on an ultrasound measurement and the new due date was two weeks later than my original and correct due date. The due date they gave me meant I would have conceived only a few days before I found out I was pregnant. Anyway, I was so upset because as my real due date was approaching and I was making a lot of progress I knew they would not induce me and I was afraid I would go late. I was so uncomfortable and my husband had just severely broken his wrist skiing and was going to have major surgery to repair it. I wanted her out and I was so afraid I would go way over my due date because of their insistence that their due date was right. I was scheduled for an appt the day before my real due date. I had been having sporadic contractions for a couple weeks and the previous weekend they had gotten so strong at one point, I thought I was in labor. The morning of my appointment I was nearly in tears because I didn’t want to go in again and hear that I had made more progress but they still weren’t going to do anything. On the way to my appointment I started to have contractions. I started timing them and they were regularly 7 minutes apart. I told the nurse when I got there. When they checked me I was 5cm, 90% and had what they called a “bulging bag of water.” Needless to say, they sent me to the hospital and she was born a few hours later.
    So, all that to say, don’t be discouraged. Regardless of doctors and the way they do things, the baby will come soon and hopefully before Tuesday!!! I will be praying for you and a prompt delivery!

  23. I’m thinking and praying for you and your fam! Sometimes doctors can be so irritating! Enjoy your time he/she will be here soon!

  24. Oh honey… vent away.

    And remember you are still sleeping at night. I can;t wait to hear the venting posts you have in 3 months time about no sleep. LOL!

  25. PS. Enjoy it. Promise you will for me, the pooped mom of three?

  26. But now you don’t have to wait until Tuesday! Yay!!!

    Thinking of you!

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