Loss. Lost.

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Thursday, November 4th, 2010 was is a life-changing day for me.  For us.  For all of us.

Thursday, at a routine visit to the doctor, at almost 17 weeks, we learned that Serious Baby #3 was no longer with us.

We don’t really know what to do.  We don’t really know how to act.  We don’t even really know how to feel.

We are grieving. 

We are suffering from loss.

We are lost.

Please pray for all of us.  Pray for understanding.  Pray for healing.  Pray for comfort.  Pray for strength.


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  1. Oh I am so sorry to hear about your loss Krystyn. Will be praying for your whole family. Hugs,
    Rose.

  2. oh Krystyn ~ I am so very. very. sorry.
    May you find comfort in the days, weeks, months ahead….
    xoxo

  3. Hey love–I am reading this over and over with chills. I am so, so sorry & there are no words I can say. I lost two babies and I know that it hurts and it hurts a lot.

    I am praying for you.

  4. oh sweetie. I am so sorry. My heart is hurting for you. I know how it feels. I lost one at 12 weeks and it was like a part of my heart was ripped out of my chest. I will say prayers for your family.

  5. Oh Krystyn…I am so incredibly sorry. I know there are no words to help your heart heal, but please know I am praying for each of you.

  6. I am so sorry. I was actually thinking about you today and wondering about you because you hadn’t posted anything this weekend. God had you on my heart! I am praying for you and wishing I could give you a hug. Praying for His peace to Hug you as you hurt in this loss.

  7. am so sorry to hear that dear.. you and your family are in my prayers.

  8. My heart is breaking for you all. I am so, so sorry. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  9. Oh, Krystyn.

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. I don’t even know what to say.

    I’m sending many, many prayers your way.

  10. Oh Krystyn, I’m so sorry for you and your family. I know a bit of what you’re going through. I’ll be thinking of you…

  11. Such sad news…. It’s not fair for any mother to have to experience this. I’m sorry and I’m praying for you and your family.

  12. I am so, so sorry for your loss! This is not a thing any mother or father should have to go through! We are praying for you and your family in your time of loss and need. Praying for peace that passes all understanding in knowing that Serious Baby #3 is safe in the arms o Jesus!

  13. Krystyn, I wish I knew what to say to you…to your family…to everyone, but I don’t think there are any words. Please just know that I’m praying for your understanding and healing during this time.

  14. Krystyn.

    I am so so sorry. I can’t imagine what you and your family is going through right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will be praying for peace to wash over your entire family.

  15. I am so sorry about your family’s loss Krystyn. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

  16. Prayers for comfort and understanding are being sent up for you and the family!

  17. Oh my, Krystyn, I am so very sorry for you and your family. I wish I knew the exact words to comfort, but I will be praying for you all.

  18. Oh I’m so sorry..thats a sad news… 🙁
    I don’t know what else to say..but I will pray for you ..May God guide you and heal you.

  19. Oh my! I am so sorry to hear that, Krystyn. I am sad to hear this news. God bless you and the family and hoping that you guys will have a fast recovery. I don’t know what else to say, but you are in our prayers.

    Adin B

  20. lura staffanson says:

    Dearest Krystyn I am so sorry. So sad for you. My love and prayers are with you. Our daughter in law lost a baby 2 years ago. She was not as far along as you but it was still hard. However, a few month later she got pregnant again and now has a precious baby boy. I hope the same thing will happen in your case. Hang in there sweet friend. Time will heal the pain and the tears. I am praying for you with love, Lura

  21. we are so sorry for your loss. may the Lord comfort you at this trying times of your life. we will be praying for you and your family.

  22. oh Krystyn. I’m so sorry for your loss, for your family’s loss. Praying for you and your family, and sending you all lots of hugs.

  23. My heart is breaking for you. Someone else mentioned it as well, but I also randomly thought of you this weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  24. There are no words to say how sorry I am…sending prayers for you and the family.

  25. Oh I am so very sorry Krystyn. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  26. Krysten,

    I am over from Jennilee’s blog. Just wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby. Please know that we will be praying for your family during this difficult time. My family has walked through the loss of three of our five children. We now have a ministry to offer comfort and hope to those who walk this path. I would like to send you a special Dreams of You Memory Book, Comfort Bear, and a few other items. If that would be o.k., please email me at sufficientgraceministries at gmail (dot) com. We do not charge families for our products or services. We are here if you need us…please let me know if there is anything we can do.

    In His Grace,
    Kelly Gerken
    Sufficient Grace Ministries
    http://www.sufficientgrace.net

  27. You and your family are in my thoughts Krystyn! Many prayers sent your way!

  28. LittleSweethearts says:

    Oh Krystyn, I’m so, so sorry for you and your family. Trust me, I know how much this hurts. If you want to ‘talk’, feel free to e-mail me. I’ve been where you are.
    Big hug,
    Tania

  29. oh my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…I am so so sorrry!!!!!

  30. I am so sorry, Krystyn. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. <3

  31. I am so sorry for your loss, Krystyn. Prayers are being said on you and your family’s behalf.

  32. I don’t know what to say to make it better. I pray you find the strength to carry on and to pick yourself up again. Hugs, love and lots of prayers for you and the family. If you need anything, I’m always an email away!!

    Thinking of you friend!

  33. I’m very sorry for your loss. <3

  34. I’m so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. XOXO ♥ to you, Krystyn!

  35. I’m so sorry!!! I lost a baby at 13 weeks for no apparent reason, also. Please… if you need someone to talk to email me at ourkidsmom @ gmail dot com.

  36. Krystyn I am so so sorry. There are no words friend. Just know that I am praying for you and your family right now and in the months to come. May God give you peace during this very hard to understand time.

    Sending hugs…

  37. I ma heartbroken for you, I can not imagine what you must be going through and I know no words will make it right ::hugs::

  38. I will be praying for you and yours Krystyn. My heart breaks for you 🙁

    Love, Mere

  39. Krystyn,
    My heart goes out to you all. I too have been through a very similar loss, and remember the lost feeling. Nothing in the world seems right. Every second is a struggle. Every thought, every decision, a challenge. Not knowing how to go on. Cherish the memories you had, when your little one was with you, And know that there are many, many people who care deeply about you.
    God bless.

  40. I am so so sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers.

  41. Dear Mommy Krys, I am sorry to hear about your loss. I am praying for you.

  42. Krysten, I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for your family for strength while you are weak, understanding and comfort for you all. Again I am so very sorry.

  43. Oh Krystyn. I am so very sorry. There is nothing I can say to make you feel any better, I know, but I am praying for you. I am praying for comfort, and peace, and strength for you and your family. Please know that I am thinking of you and holding you in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

  44. Oh, hun! I am truly sorry for you loss. Grieve. Talk about it. That was the mistake I made with my miscarriage, which made it even harder to get over. Take care of yourself. I am praying for you and your family.

  45. Just know that you are not alone. I will pray for you and your family. Know that when times are tough- GOD wants to draw you closer to him- he wants you to lean on him.

  46. Oh Krystyn, I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you guys.

  47. “Tears are God’s gift to us. Our holy water. They heal us as they flow.” ~Rita Schiano

    I am so sorry for your loss Krystyn. I pray for peace and strength for all of you.

  48. Blessing Oyeleye says:

    Krystyn,

    I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God gives you the strength to move on from this. This is quite a shock to us all. God bless you and your family.

    Blessing O.

  49. I am sorry for your loss. Only God knows the reason why.. I don’t have any word of wisdom for you coz I don’t know how you feel. Keep your faith.

  50. Krystyn, I am so very sorry. There are no words I can use to express how sorry I am. I am praying for you and your family.

  51. Krystyn, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  52. Oh my gosh, sweetie I am SO sorry. I honestly cannot even imagine how you are feeling or the right things to say right now but you are so terribly in my heart right now. Sending so many virtual hugs.

  53. I am so SO sorry for your loss! I will keep you guys in my prayers. I just don’t know what to say because when we went through this nothing that anyone can do or say makes it any better. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

  54. Oh my God Krystyn, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  55. Oh sweetie, I’m so sooooo sorry. I have added you to our prayer chain and of course you are in my daily prayers here, too. {hugs} ♥

  56. Krystyn, I’m so, so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how you’re hurting. Praying for peace and healing for all of you.

  57. I am so sorry about this! Keeping you in my prayers.

  58. Stephanie says:

    Thinking and praying for you and your family….there are no words I can say to make you feel better, just know that you guys are being prayed for.

  59. Oh I’m so sorry. You are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers. I’m not sure why God chose to take your little life but there is a reason in there somewhere. I hope it presents itself soon. Big Hugs to you and your family!

  60. Oh Krystyn honey, I’m so, so, so sorry. I’m crying for you and lifting you all up as we speak. I wish there was more I could do or say but please just know we are all hugging you virtually. Much love…

  61. Prayers for you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

  62. Krystyn, after having been through this myself at 26 weeks, I know nothing I say right now will take away the shock, the pain, the deepest hurt you’ve probably ever felt, as much as I wish I could right now. And I won’t tell you time heals because it’s just a bandaid … but love does. Hug your husband, hug your children, and hold on to my virtual hug … I’m thinking of you!

  63. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. So sorry. Prayers.

  64. I don’t even know what to say. I’m soooo sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

  65. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

    Melissa

  66. I have prayed for you both and I would like to tell you I am very sorry for your loss. My sister lost her first child and I know how devastated you must feel. Please, give it to the Lord, He can and will heal your wound and He can, give you another child.
    God bless!

  67. Krystyn…I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know what you are going through right now, but at the same time I sort of do. My best friend lost her first baby just last month at around 8 weeks and it was a blow for all of us. It totally makes you question everything and leaves you just wondering why. I will be praying and thinking of you during this hard time. I was already thinking of you last night when I saw that Mommy & Me Monday was not up like it usually is…I just never thought this would be why. I know I’m not near you in distance to help…but if there is anything you need…please let me know!

  68. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Praying for you and the rest of your family…

  69. Krystyn, I’m so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers, a million times over.

  70. Oh Krystyn, I am so very very sorry to hear this. I’m sending big prayers to you and your family for peace and healing. xoxo

  71. I’m so sorry Krystyn. So very, very sorry. ((hugs))

  72. Jennifer @ Polka Dot Tuesdays says:

    So sorry about your loss. Sending you and your family our prayers.

  73. Krystyn…Oh no. I am so so very sorry. Im thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Sending you well wishes and healing thoughts. So sorry.

  74. Oh, Krystyn, I am soooo sorry I’m just now seeing this post. My heart is breaking for you and I just can’t imagine what you’re going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if you need anything.

  75. Krystyn, I am so sorry for the loss that you and your family have experienced. You are in my family’s prayers.

  76. I’m crying…I’m so, so sorry. There are no words that will ever make the hurt you’re feeling feel “okay”…

    Email me/call me if you need to. Having an angel in heaven is the hardest thing that any parent should have to go through 🙁

    Love you, honey. And sending you lots of love and prayers.

  77. I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings to you as you find comfort in the weeks and months ahead.

  78. I’m so sorry Krystyn, sending hugs and love your way. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  79. How am I just reading this now…
    I am so, so, so dreadfully sorry, my friend. This is such a hard thing to go through, and I hope and pray you’re surrounded by love and family right now. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers. Huge hugs.

  80. Oh Krystyn,

    I just saw this. I am so sad to hear about your sweet little one. My prayers for you and your family in this time of grief. May God’s comforting hands be on you now and in the coming years.

  81. There are no words….you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers…
    As you said, God is in control, but it’s hard to let go of the steering wheel.

  82. Krystyn, I don’t know how I found your blog, I think it was God. I am so sad for you right now as I truly know what you are feeling. A little over a year ago I went through this same thing. I was 16 weeks along and same thing no hearbeat and baby was gone. Had only been gone a few days becasue I had felt baby move a couple of days earlier. I will pray for you as this journey is not an easy one. You will become closer to God than ever before and he will physically carry you many days when you can’t do it yourself. Cry when you n eed to cry, laugh when you need to laugh, ask why when you need to, but always remember the Lord is with you and his crying when you cry and laughing when you laugh.
    God Bless you, Susan

  83. ModernMom says:

    Oh Hon
    I am so so sorry,
    I had to go back and read through your posts….
    Sending up a prayer for you and your family. Sending you strength and hugs because there really are no words.
    MM

  84. I somehow missed this post, and I want to say I am so sorry for your loss. Huge hugs and prayers for you and your family.

  85. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Take your time to mourn and hug your little ones.

  86. Oh Krystyn…………..I’m so sorry…I’ve just been trying to catch up with blogs and just found out. It takes my breath away and I hardly know what to say……….
    I’ve been there, having had a miscarriage about 3 years ago at 9 weeks…..but surely I know not what else to say………I’m heartbroken and can hardly imagine how it feels to you. I hate to even send this now, so as to stir the feelings for you, but I want you to know I’m thinking of you…………Take good care………

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